Focus On The Family’s Slightly More Polite Game Of ‘Smear The Queer’

The 16th annual Day of Silence is upon us. On April 20, 2012, students across the world will take a one-day vow of silence to remember LGBT kids who died by suicide this year and more broadly draw attention to the effects of homophobia, transphobia, and heterosexism.

Day of Silence 2012

As you might guess, anti-gay groups are none too happy about people being reminded that their anti-gay rhetoric has a real human cost, and they’re sending in their kids to give the homos a smackdown.

Anti-gay group Alliance Defense Fund initiated Day of Truth back in 2005, built on the knowledge that the gay kids wouldn’t be able to respond verbally during the Day of Silence. It was horribly unpopular, and in 2009 ADF passed it to “ex-gay” group Exodus International. It became even less popular after the wave of LGBT suicides in late 2010, so EI passed it on to hate-group-affiliated Focus On The Family. Focus then rebranded the event as the Day of Dialogue.

Whatever they want to call their official anti-gay response, it’s remarkably similar to Smear The Queer. For those who missed that bit of playground violence in their youth, here’s a pretty good explanation from The Crow’s Eye.

The objet de jeu was simple, compared to baseball or lacrosse: do violence to the “Queer” with the ball. If you are wondering if the Queer was just an odd fellow, within game play, ponder no further. The Queer was certainly the Fag. And he had a handicap, which was the ball. The Queer had to have two hands on the ball, unless he was throwing it away. The point of the game, from the vantage point of the ball clasping Queer, was to get rid of the ball and become not-Queer. Because the only person who could be struck, tackled, knocked down or done violence to was the Queer with the ball.

In this slightly more polite version of the game, anti-gay groups arm the children of anti-gay churches to spread their anti-gay message to gay kids (and some straight allies). Then they present the anti-gay “Hey, we’re just having a conversation, man” model of sermonizing, full of coded words like “struggle” and “God’s best plan.” The goal is to get a gay kid alone and give him a good old-fashioned spiritual attack until he relents and goes back in the closet, or at least doubts himself enough to stop talking about it.

Last month, Friendly Atheist posted this spot-on response to the weird Day of Dialogue cards Focus are asking their kids to pass out to Day of Silence participants. Original is on top, response on bottom.

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Last Saturday, Kenneth Weishuhn completed suicide after he came out a month ago and endured death threats by exactly the type of kids Focus On The Family has recruited to hand out these cards. He was 14. Austin Rodriguez attempted suicide in March at the age of 15, after coming out late last year. Thank God, Austin was not successful, and Asterisk exclusively reported earlier this week that he is slowly regaining his strength.

Jamey Rodemeyer. Rafael Morelos. Matthew Chance. Jacob Rogers. And the list goes on. Below is the map I’ve been keeping up of LGBT suicides in the United States.

(View LGBT Suicides in the United States in a larger map)

This year, we will remember that the anti-gay groups don’t want truth, and they don’t want dialogue. They want us to cease to be, to disappear. Above all else, they want to end us. The children and adults — their campaign’s damage lasts a lifetime — on this map are their success stories. (And yes, I’m saying what you think I’m saying. It’s long past time to stop sugar-coating it.)

This Day of Silence, we will remember.

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2 thoughts on “Focus On The Family’s Slightly More Polite Game Of ‘Smear The Queer’

  1. 1,500,000 AMERICANS DEAD OR DYING OF AIDS!

    MILLIONS OF FATHERLESS CHILDREN FILLING OUR PRISONS!

    MILLION WITH STD’S AND DISEASES CAUSED BY SEXUAL 
    DECADENCE!

    MILLIONS OF MEN AND BOYS RAPED IN PRISONS BY
    YOUR FILTHY VERMIN (ESPECIALLY OBAMA’S BLACKS)

    60 TRILLION DOLLARS IN DEBT FROM SELF CONSUMED
    MARXISTS/LEFTISTS

    FAGGGOTS &  TREASONOUS VERMIN ABOUND HOW ABOUT THE
    ONE IN THE ARMY WHO RELEASED CLASSIFIED DOCUMENTS?

    PS I LIVE IN OKLAHOMA AND HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH 
    YOUR  FAGGGOT KILLING HIMSELF. BLAME YOURSELVES 
    FOR YOUR DECADENT LIFESTYLES ITS YOUR WAY OF
    LIFE NOT MINE.

    UNDERSTAND THAT THE GIFT OF JESUS IS ALWAYS THERE
    AND THAT YOU MAKE A CHOICE TO LEAD AN IMMORAL
    EVIL LIFESTYLE.   Also recall that Jesus said “VENGEANCE
    IS MINE: !!

    AND DON’T FORGET YOU AIN’T GOD TRASH!! 

    ADIOS HAVE A GREAT DAY

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